What you could refer to as being frugal or miserly with money is really just a Virgo's subconscious getting ready for a horrible situation they anticipate will someday happen.
Virgos are highly inquisitive people. Additionally, they frequently imagine the worst-case scenario. They practically stockpile money to deal with any scenario, as a result.
Maybe? Or perhaps not? It must be positioned in the center. One of the numerous characteristics of Virgo is their focus on their work, although they are not workaholics.
They organize their day so that they will have some spare time for themselves at the end. And in order to take advantage of that extra time, they frequently put in long hours of labor.
We dare to question, "What kind of problem are you talking about?" If it's a personal issue, they undoubtedly find it difficult to handle.
Since Virgo is an Earth sign, other elements (Air, Water, and Fire) naturally have a greater impact on it. On the other hand, Virgo also gives them the room to do so, just as it does for people.
And that's exactly what we hear: a fear of losing you. A Virgo is not overly concerned with the minor things you say or do until they become friends with you (just friends kind of friends).
The tables inevitably turn, though, as they start to feel attracted to you or start to get protective of the friendship you have with them.